Differences Must Be Understood

 God created man with perfection and difference for example men and women. They are both human, but the difference between them is very much different.

Many differences between men and women include physical differences, instincts, attitudes and behavior. In plain view men and women can be distinguished but in terms of instincts attitude and behavior are not easy to see, let alone guessed.

In terms of attitude, women are known to always want to be understood but when their hearts are filled with anxiety they rarely express their hearts directly. this attitude makes men always feel awkward with the thoughts of those who are created using their logic very much compared to their feelings and they are constantly afflicted by confusion because one thing is always a big problem for both.

In the book "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" by John Gray explains in detail the differences between men and women. Explanation about men who are likened to rubber bracelets while women are like waves, it confirms that men need acceptance and encouragement. To help men grow, don't try to be too hard and force them to change. Because the rubber band that is pulled in full will force it back into its original shape or even break up, and the woman who is likened to a wave confirms that women sometimes look calm and peaceful but unexpectedly change their attitude to not wanting to be disturbed and not in the mood.

Men will argue because they do not feel trusted, admired, or encouraged and are not spoken to with the tone of trust and acceptance. Women will argue because they are not listened to or put high on a man's list of priorities.

Some of these differences should make us more meaningful that there are differences not to be disputed but to learn that we live not only to be understood but we also must understand.