Review The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A f chapter 8-9

I would like  to continue my last review the subtle art of not giving A f from chapter 8 until chapter 9

  Chapter 8 : The Importance of Saying No

A little different from other writings when explaining about saying nothing will. Say no not only to the invitation of others but to yourself. When we decide to care about something, that means there are other things we ignore. In other words, we say no to things we don't care about, even though sometimes that is a good thing.

setting limits when you reject something also applies to you. In that sense you have the right to refuse other people to get involved deep into your problem. If the position is reversed, you have a problem and ask your friend's opinion, then your friend judges you, you have the right to tell him that you don't like him if he blames you. If in fact you are wrong, and you admit it, but you are embarrassed to admit your mistakes, you have the right to refuse your shame to admit your mistakes.

When we say no to something or reject something, of course there are people who will disagree with our opinions or attitudes. Then a conflict arises.

"Conflict to show us who is there unconditionally and who is just there for benefits"

Another thing that arises when you have chosen is commitment. Commitment to a choice makes you focus on your choices. When you are committed to always saying and being honest, you will focus on learning to be someone who is honest. You will find out what truth is. And you will dig deeper into honesty.

Chapter 9 : … And Then You Die 

This is about our legacy. We will die. I will die and you will die. After we die, what do people want to know about us? I will not explain this part straightforwardly. Just one question to explain this section, "What will people remember about me when I died?". So, do we have to don’t care about the unimportant and frivolous things just for we die?

Mark Manson's well-worth 5 values ​​delivered on his book are really important. Many sentences that I took from his book and translated them for you. It is possible that what I have said is wrong because this paper is the result of my interpretation. And maybe also after you read the book yourself you will have a different interpretation from me.

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Experience Of reading friend blog

Everyone argue that reading can make our have many experience and I agree with the statement and I have read 5 blog from my friends, there are :
http://andiarun.blogspot.com/2018/11/area-7-summary.html?m=1

https://anggitakana.blogspot.com/2018/11/to-kill-mockingbird.html?m=1

https://aldihasyimash.blogspot.com/2018/11/review-new-earth.html?m=1

https://adetryaoktaviani.blogspot.com/2018/11/the-power-of-positive-thinking-by-jack.html?m=1

https://anggardaparamita96.blogspot.com/2018/11/the-book-of-motivasion-by-erwin.html?m=1

My experience after I reading other people’s blogs, I read many synopsis that can give me knowledge about someone’s experience and many story inspired me also make me interest and influenced because of I read many synopsis’ blog. I really enjoy read 5 blog above because easy to understand and they blog it so inseresting.

The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F Chapter 6-7

I would like to continue review “the subtle art of not giving a f” from chapter 6 until chapter 7 

Chapter 6 : We’re Wrong about Everything

Since childhood, we are taught to always be confident in ourselves so we can be confident. However, Mark Manson had other thoughts. Instead we must question that belief in ourselves. What do I believe is correct? What if what I believe is wrong? if I am wrong, what is the worst thing that will happen to me? What can I learn if I am wrong? After I found out I was wrong, would I be better than me who didn't make a mistake? And I think, with it it seems like you want to know whether we are wrong or right, avoid us from feeling the right because we believe that what we believe may be wrong.

Chapter 7 : Failure is The Way Forward

There are several parts that I underline in this chapter

“If you’re stuck on a problem, don’t sit there and think about it; just start working on it. even if you don’t know what you’re doing, the simple act of working on it will eventually cause the right ideas to show up in your head.”

So, don't wait for motivation to do something. when it fails, do something. Just do it even though we don't know where we are going to take it. just do it even though we don't know whether what we are doing is right or wrong. The same is true when we take part in a marathon competition. When we feel tired and want to give up, run, or maybe walk. Even though we don't know what our strength is, walk. Just keep moving forward. If you like writing, then at one point you are stuck, run out of ideas and don't know what to write. Get up, turn on your computer or open your book. Write it, even though we don't know what we write is good or not. just write. Because from there we will know the power of a word "Do something!".

I will continue the last part next week

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